as much as i enjoy a strong cock fucking my ass from time to time, when I'm having sex with other men I habitually take the role of a top. But for us (wife and I) our sex is for pleasure and entertainment and not a power play.
I think all women must stimulate male on male sex as they watch... as only a cock can really hit that P-spot , I so loose it all as my spot is hit....I just want more and more... and I so love to lick her vagina as I am fucked real good !!